Doing What You Should Be Doing

You’re getting a two-fer today and yes, I’m talking about videos. I decided to go this route for two reasons, which makes sense. One, because both videos help me explain my main topic today. Two, because I did the two videos close to two years apart; hey, that’s the best I’ve got. 🙂

In the first video, I question why we don’t do the things we should be doing. Let’s lead with that, and then I’ll come back:

I hope you’ve watched that video, otherwise some of the rest of this post might not make sense. That’s because, based on that video, I’m going to give 4 recommendations for figuring out how to take action, no matter what it is.

1. Look at your main goal and figure out how to break it into small incremental, achievable actions.

Things often seem daunting when you’re looking at the ultimate goal and start thinking “wow, that’s going to take a lot of work”. Hey, goals take work; that’s life! However, very few real goals can be done in one day. They take planning and then step by step actions.

Think of building a house. In my area, it starts with clearing the land. Then a big hole is dug and fashioned into a basement (I’ve learned that not all homes in the south have basements; just go with it). Then you cement the basement. Then you build the frame of the house, which includes a roof. Next come the outer walls. Once that’s done, for most everyone else you see a house. However, a lot more work has to be done inside, but now it’s easier to get to because the workers are more protected from the elements.

All of these things are done in increments, and I left a lot of stuff out. Still, if it’s your house, you start to swell with excitement with each new addition; think of your goals that way.

2. Find the positives in everything you want to do and only concentrate on those.

If you read this blog or my other blog often enough you know that I always espouse the belief of positive thoughts over negative thoughts. Thus, if you want to learn something, instead of thinking about how hard it is you should be thinking about how good you’ll feel when you achieve it. If you need to lose weight, you should be thinking about your health and, once again, how you’ll feel rather than the work it’s going to take to lose it.

I know a lot of people who say they thrive off negative energy, such as wanting to show someone who didn’t believe in them how wrong they were. I’m not going to deny that works, but it’s not as sustaining as doing things for yourself rather than against someone else’s beliefs.


3. Think of your own interest rather than someone else’s interest.

This one is somewhat controversial but stick with me for a moment.

I know some people who say “I want to do ‘blank’ to show my kid/spouse/parent that I could do it”, or “I want to do ‘blank’ for my kid/spouse/parent”. In essence, they see themselves as doing it for someone else; that’s not true when you think about it.

Doing what needs to be done is always in one’s own best interest. When you think you’re doing it for someone else, you’re actually doing it for yourself, because “you” want something for a specific reason, even if someone else is involved. You need to keep that in mind because, strangely enough, it turns out that when you really believe you’re doing it for someone else you’re more likely to fail.

I’m not the only one saying something like this by the way. There’s a post by a lady named Gretchen Rubin titled Why I Try Not To Do Things For Others, But Instead, Do Them For Myself, where she talks about finding happiness once she learned this as a concept. Also, a book I’m presently reading called Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do by Amy Morin talks about the concept of taking control of your own actions because they’re really the only thing one can control, and then things will come together for you even if in some way they’ll involve other people.

It might seem selfish, but remember the recommendation on every flight you take: “put on your own mask before helping someone else put theirs on”.

4. There’s always a way to do something you might not believe can be done.

Finally we get to the point where the second video comes into play. Last summer I was having major problems keeping my glucose levels under control; I’m diabetic, in case you’re new here. I knew I had to do something to get it under control because it was damaging my eyes and my feet and probably other things I didn’t know about.

I decided that walking was going to be the way I addressed this problem. Lo and behold, it worked. However, when I started I was out of town on a consulting gig down south. When that ended and I came home… it was cold! Even if we have a few days of warmth here and there in November, it’s starting to get really chilly at that point, and of course December through May… it’s cold and snowy in my area.

Sure, I could get out and walk by bundling myself up, but not only is it somewhat problematic but dangerous, especially once the snowbanks start building up. Less room to walk, cars sliding all over the place… not the best of circumstances, and you can’t go to the lake and walk either. So… see the video, which is fairly brief:

Before I made this video I had friends wondering how I was putting in the number of steps I was getting every day. As my buddy Rasheed says, if you really want to do something the universe will help you figure it out. 🙂

That’s what I’ve got for you; so, get going and do what you need to do!

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6 thoughts on “Doing What You Should Be Doing”

  1. Hi Mitch,
    It’s another useful post.
    I enjoyed your second video and thinking about to start. Because, walking inside our house is much better than going to gym and walking on the treadmill. 🙂
    Also, I would like to accept your 5 days challenge which you mention in the first video. But I’m pretty sure that I won’t continue to do that even for 2 days 🙁
    Anyway thanks for this interesting post and looking forward more such motivational videos from you.
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    1. You can do it Thyrone; it’s only 5 days. lol Glad you liked and watched the videos; that’s greatly appreciated. Overall, I think if we can find different ways to do the things we should be doing there’s nothing but benefit from it.

  2. Ooof, I feel this hard. The planner I use has a page each month for a 30 day challenge and let’s say, I am 0-7. I maintain it’s because I want everything on the same page for my week and not have to flip around everywhere but honestly, that illustrates my problem. I think I am a bit lazy and don’t like change. I’ve done it before though. I did really well with exercising and eating right a few years back and then hit a weight plateau and got annoyed so went back to all my old (bad) habits. Trying to get myself back on track so loved this post – more motivation!

    1. My planner has the same type of page, and I put things on it but I don’t use it as often as I should. I’ve gotten out of the habit since the pandemic hit, but I’m working my way back into it. At least I kept up with my health goals, though I went into a bit of a binging mode for about a month; that wasn’t pretty. lol At least you’re writing everything down, which means you’re giving yourself a chance to get it done eventually. 🙂

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