Why We Don’t Trust Sales People
Posted by Mitch Mitchell on Jan 4, 2011
Last week we had a new picture window installed for our house. Yes, it was cold, about 25 degrees, and it might have seemed like a strange time to have a window replaced. I don’t like bugs; enough said.
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The window that was there had been there about 50 years or so. It had never been broken and looked fine, but it was old technology. The living room has always been cold, so much so that in the winter my wife and I pretty much stay out of there. In the summer it’s so hot because of the evening sun that, once again, we have to stay out of there, even if the curtains and blinds are closed, because the heats builds up a lot then won’t go away.
So we had a new, modern window installed, which you see above. Looks pretty good, and it has some neat features to it. At one point, though, I went over to the window and touched it while the guy installing it was still there. And it felt cold.
I said “Hey, the window feels cold“.
He said “It’s supposed to feel cold. The outer window is exposed to the cold, so cold will eventually reach the second window.”
I said “But when the sales guy came, he had an example of what he were getting, with the heat lamp that he pressed against the window, and we didn’t feel any heat whatsoever. He told us we wouldn’t feel anything.”
He said “I always worry about sales guys because they sometimes tell people something that’s not totally true. I’m glad I’m just a contractor so I don’t have to deal with them all that much.”
My wife came home and said that she wasn’t feeling the draft anymore; I’m not so sure. I can’t feel much difference in the living room than I did before the new window was put in. The sales guy promised us that we’d see at least 15% in savings on our heating bill and our air conditioning bill from putting that window in. I’m just not so sure anymore. Did I really need a new window or just someone to do more with sealing problem areas around the window?
Why do we hate being sold to? Because we just don’t trust what people say to us about something. My wife and I don’t know a lot about windows but we’ve learned some things since the first set of windows were put in.
For instance, as I watched this guy most of the day (and it was cold, so that wasn’t pleasant for almost 6 hours), I made sure he was sealing the area around the windows both inside and outside of the house. We learned that lesson when we wondered what was going on with windows we purchased 4 years ago and had a contractor come by and show us that none of those windows were sealed properly. So, I know this guy did the job pretty well.
Yet, we can’t know it all. Years ago we had a company come in called Zero Draft to do an assessment on our house for drafts and the like. We ended up paying them around $3,500 for the job, which included more insulation and other stuff. The result; the house still felt cold, even after the guy came back and did his tests and said their scanners were saying all the drafts were taken care of. Do these folks ever get a recommendation from me? Not even close because I’m not satisfied.
As an independent consultant, I understand the issues in trying to convince someone that I’m going to do right by them. Almost everyone has had someone who has promised them something and didn’t have it delivered. Sometimes it’s the fault of the person doing the selling; sometimes it’s the fault of the person who perceived something that wasn’t stated. Either way, it’s always up to the person providing the service or product to not only try to represent themselves legitimately, but to try to give what’s promised, if possible.
I look at the products that I’ve created and wonder whether they deliver what people are expecting. I certainly know they’re as good as I could make them, but would someone purchasing those things agree?
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I had one bad situation years ago at a hospital in New York City. The guy who set it up for me promised the moon to the guy who took me on. The place had way more problems than I could attack, most of which was having to try to work with people who belonged to a union that administration had irked so much that the employees that reported to me weren’t really supposed to talk to me, though they eventually did.
That’s a lot to overcome, and I’m not omnipotent so what was hoped for wasn’t happening. I did the best I could, tried to bring them back into regulations, and ended up bringing in the most cash they’d had in a one week period all year the last week I was there. But it wasn’t close enough to expectations. Was that my fault, the fault of the guy who promoted me, or the fault of the guy who took me on by not letting anyone know just how bad things were? By the way, that hospital’s closed now, which shows just how bad it was.
As bloggers who are trying to make a buck off our blogs, or off our websites, it’s incumbent upon us to try to always put our best foot forward in whatever we do. If you’re writing a product review, do you really believe what you’re saying, or are you writing what you are just to get paid? Will your product really solve the problem you told people it would or does it go in a different direction? Are you giving people solutions or history?
And yes, I’m still cold.
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Mitch Reply:
January 4th, 2011 at 11:11 AM
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But they still promise you the moon and the stars to reel you in. I agree that as bloggers it is our duty to give honest reviews and offer people that visit our blogs a real solution to their problems.
Sorry to hear your still cold over there.
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Mitch Reply:
January 4th, 2011 at 11:21 AM
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I had experience of people selling something on behalf of my company without realizing the costs behind it, without understanding they were basically underselling a product or service by far, causing an actual damage to his own company. And I had experience of being on the customer end of it, being delivered something not up to my expectations but not against any contract either, ’cause most of the times the sales people words are just that, words.
The idea solution would be for sales people to be throughly informed on what they are selling (which isn’t the case most of the times) and for them not to try too hard to sell. If they do, it’s because they are afraid not to earn enough, then maybe companies should revise a little the contracts they have with them, making conditions a bit better in order to improve business as a whole. What do you think?
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Mitch Reply:
January 4th, 2011 at 2:27 PM
For me, I’m the entire business. I can’t afford to oversell and not deliver because I can’t fire me. That may make my thoughts on this subject different than most, but also being a customer I don’t think so.
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Mitch Reply:
January 4th, 2011 at 2:30 PM
I don’t have any recourse on the window, unfortunately, and my wife says at least it looks nice and is more modern than the other one, which means we can open it in the spring or summer to let air flow through the house. I think that’s how they get you; give you just enough so you think you have benefited in some fashion.
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Mitch Reply:
January 4th, 2011 at 2:32 PM
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I’m wondering, though, how the guy demonstrated the window with a heat lamp and yet that’s not what’s happening with your window? Is it different glass or something? I’d be livid.
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Mitch Reply:
January 4th, 2011 at 5:06 PM
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 4th, 2011 at 11:06 PM
Okay, your link this time, Rochester News? They don’t accept comments; what’s up with that?
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Carl Reply:
January 5th, 2011 at 7:27 AM
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 5th, 2011 at 8:31 AM
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Sorry about your windows, Mitch, I wish that had worked out better for you.
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 4th, 2011 at 11:08 PM
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That window you put in, I’m assuming its double glazed, as in it has two panes of glass? If so it will save you money as far as energy consumption is concerned, but that second glass will still still heat up and such just not as much.
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 5th, 2011 at 8:27 AM
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Sire Reply:
January 6th, 2011 at 2:15 AM
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 6th, 2011 at 9:49 AM
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 5th, 2011 at 8:28 AM
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I’d value any feedback you or your readers may have – my intent is to come up with some sort of framework for sales people and their companies to embrace to give them “trusted status”.
Regards – Bruce
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 5th, 2011 at 8:38 AM
In the meantime I think you hit it on the head. Both your post and mine highlight this issue of sales people not being fully trained for what it is they do. However, I get the feeling that the guy who came here knew his stuff and still “gamed” us. I should have gone with my first thought, which is to verify everything by getting a counter offer from someone I know who does windows. That’s what we forget to do; get bids & have people prove stuff to us. I had a similar issue earlier this year when we were entertaining having our roof fixed. We got quotes from $8,000 to $30,000; I mean, what the heck is that?
You sometimes just don’t know who to trust.
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They vacuum your whole house- even your mattress…producing all kinds of scary “stuff”.
By the time they are done, they have practically convinced you that your home should be condemned because of all the dirt and filth your old vacuum missed…. so you buy theirs…
And their vacuum never works the same again….
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 5th, 2011 at 8:30 AM
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I am also very cautious about dealing with salespeople and make it a point to always think my decisions through when buying something. Maybe, that is why I am also very careful in the image that I present to my clients when I do sell my skills to them.
- Wes -
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 5th, 2011 at 11:16 PM
For me, I’m a sole proprietor; I’m the sales person, but I’m also the guy doing the work. So, I basically sell “me”, and then hope that someone will be interested in what I do or say and hire me. Tough way to market, but it’s my way.
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Regarding sales persons i usually don’t trust them, but i do trust brands, not all brands of course, but i’ve used certain brands for a while now and no sale person is going to change that.
I think that experience teaches you to select what’s best for your needs. So you need to try some thing out, before making the right choice.
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Mitch Mitchell Reply:
January 6th, 2011 at 9:52 AM
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June 8th, 2011 at 4:54 PM
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John Knights@Business Loans Reply:
June 9th, 2011 at 4:45 PM
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