Why I Don’t Want To Follow Some Twitter Folks
Posted by Mitch on Feb 8, 2009
My goodness, another Twitter post!
Yes, another Twitter post, but at least each time I write about it, I’m writing something different. In this case, I want to talk about some of the more irritating things I see on Twitter. Overall Twitter is an interesting diversion, and it’s proven to be a news breaker. For instance, Twitter users spread the news about the Hudson River plane landing at least 15 minutes before the news organizations got the story. Twitter has allowed me to talk to people, albeit in short bursts, like Guy Kawasaki and Keith Ferrazzi.
But there are some habits from people that I don’t really like. I remember having a conversation with someone one night, though I can’t remember who, on the subject of some of these bad habits. Frankly, I chalked some of it up to ignorance; ignorance of proper decorum, ignorance of what irritates people, and ignorance of new technologies and how to really use them. However, we have a mixture of things to talk about, so let’s get started.
First, there’s this new trend of people who are creating new Twitter accounts for the purpose of selling something. I’m sure that’s nothing new, but in this case what they do is create the account, then try to start following as many people as they can. They usually pop a picture of a pretty young woman in there, and I wouldn’t doubt that most of the people they’re following are men. Sometimes the names make sense, sometimes they don’t. What I do is see the email come through telling me someone new is following me on Twitter, click on the link so I can take a look, and most of the time, now that I’ve seen it so often, I know it’s a fake account and won’t follow. Usually you see something like them following 1,600 people and maybe 30 people following them.
At the same time, there are some people who legitimately do the same thing. I have no idea how they find me or anyone else, but they do, and they just start following tons of people. I also won’t add most of those folks, but if they have a link to a blog or website I’ll at least check it out first to see what I think about it all. Sometimes the person does look pretty interesting, and I’ll follow; most of the time, though, I want to wait to see if that person draws interest.
Sometimes I take a look at how often someone is updating their own Twitter messages. If they’re not doing any talking, just following lots of people, I won’t follow them; I mean, that’s a waste of time. Obviously they don’t care to share, so I leave them alone. The people who bother me the most that do something like this, though, are the people who follow you, then when you check them out you see that they have their updates protected. Sure, you could ask them if you can follow them, but didn’t I get married so I wouldn’t have to deal with having to ask women I didn’t know if they’d like to go on a date with me? Unless it’s business, I don’t give people a chance to possibly reject me, so I don’t ask, and therefore I’m not following them.
Another thing I don’t like are those folks who have automatic messages when you decide to follow them. I’m sure they think they’re being helpful, but to me it feels more like they’re trying to be pushy. If the messages just said “Thanks for following me” or something like that I wouldn’t be bothered at all. However, what happens is that they either want to tell you about their website or their product, or they want you to download something. Of course, I’m not sure whether it’s a pure download, or an attempt to get me to put my name and email address on a list so they can start sending me all sorts of stuff, but I don’t care. I don’t like it, but I don’t immediately go and unfollow them, though I should. I just don’t pay much attention, don’t download anything, and go about my business.
One last thing I hate, but ignore most of the time, is someone who keeps writing post after post, not because they’re giving us a lot of stuff, but because they want to ignore the 140 character limit and actually have a full conversation, like chat rooms or IM’s or email. Having a conversation with someone is one thing; having a conversation with yourself is another. I’ve seen quite a lot of that. I have one friend who does that very thing; once she gets going, she just goes on and on. Sometimes I jump in and start talking to her; sometimes I just ignore it and move on. Since I’ve added TweetDeck to my system to use for my “twittering”, it’s made life so simple because I get to decide who I want to follow with a custom column, so it’s easy to ignore her when I wish. But I love her just the same.
Twitter can be a lot of fun, and informative also. Some folks just don’t get it; for the rest of us, though, let’s just keep enjoying it.

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I do like twitter though in that it helps me to keep track of my mates and what they are up to, which is how I came upon this post so quickly. It’s a lot quieter now as I un-followed some that were annoying me and me, and I have a few that may be added to my un-follow list.
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On the following versus follower thing, I’m probably one of the people you’re talking about haha. I follow 3X as many people as follow me. My logic though is that I follow a lot of people who follow the other people who I enjoy following. Then we have a honeymoon period where I see if I enjoy their posts and if not, I just unfollow them.
Still, I really can’t stand people who use twitter as just a way to spam their sites. I’ve had some people who never tweet anything except their latest releases or to buy their stuff.
Overall, I’ve enjoyed it quite a bit and have had some great conversations on it and fun ideas spawn from it.
(An example, yesterday another user and I came up with “Workout with Love.” It would be an exercise video done with background music by R&B greats… prepare for Lunges with Luther! Or Kick & Sweat with Keith Sweat!)
I just realized I don’t think I’m following you yet Mitch. I’ll get on that now
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February 8th, 2009 at 1:35 PM
I just spent a little time this morning unfollowing people who haven’t written in a long time, or ever. Doesn’t really matter one way or the other, but at least my numbers are more legitimate this way.
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I do find that it allows me to communitcate with people in my niche who I’m not likely to spea to that often. And quite a few people do link up interesting articles.
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I could follow more people but, many are just of no interest to me. I follow some people that never post just so, my numbers are more even. I know my bad again.
I really like the people that follow then send you a message to remind you that if you do not follow back then they will unfollow you. I’m like Big Deal – unfollow at any time. These are the people that are just after numbers. i figure that if you are following tons of people then you will never have time to hear what I say & they are to busy writing reply’s like @—- Hi, great to see you…. I don’t need their noise in my stream.
Just my grumpy 10 cents.
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For the most part, we’ve had a positive experience with Twitter. Personally, I try to tweet stuff folks would find interesting. I stay away from promoting business or a personal agenda.
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By the way, are we on each other’s Twitter list? Mine’s @asheraw and tweet me there, yo! =)
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Nice post Mitch..Mon
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Actually, I don’t get there yet as often as I’d like, but when I do I thoroughly check out those following me, to see if I care to.
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